Ok, I own a MAJOR problem????

ok, plz ignore the avatar pic.
I hold a problem. I do masturbate, and have be for a VERY long time. I am a virgin, though.
But here's the problem... when I finger myself, I can't reach orgasm. I can merely reach orgasm when I (this is VERY embarassing) hump a pillow.
Am I only just not fingering myself right? What do I do??
thank you!Ok, I own a MAJOR problem????
Your not the only one resembling that, I know girls that do it humping a pillow.
id read aloud you should find a boyfriend. or somer guy to fool around with. they other do it right =]
unless your real babyish then gain some toys
Well if ur not having sex.. in that is always sex toys. Vibrators are fun.lol. Some women can merely orgasm with clitoral stimulation. I suggest you turn to your nearest porn store and experiment.
You need to try to revise the technique, thats all. You should revise about how to trigger your G-spot and things similar to that. Go to clitical.com.
i tink it will be better if u juz relax n dun think roughly reaching orgasm. the more u think give or take a few it, the more u wun get it.
Many women merely climax through clitoral stimulation, rather than vaginal stimulation. It's pretty common.
im with seraphins answer. try clitorial stimulation while you do the other item.. is totally normal.. dont verbs